Hookers and beer

I have to get into this at some point, after all, it is a good part of my books.

Here is my question: if you were to explain heaven before the big bang and two people having sex what would a religious person focus on? 

-So in Canada now prostitution is legal and you can also have your first in vitro fertilization done for free by paid for by the Canadian government. 

- The cruelty of nature, a male reaching his sexual maturity at 14 and women at 35 years old. Except for those so-called sluts that reach it in their 20's or earlier by the women that do not reach it until their late 30's. So learn from the generations before you and know most of your marriages will end from the women like the man ended his high school and college relationships. Just this time the man is standing there halfway through his life wondering what the hell went wrong? 

-Only women would look at another woman and say pore you having to make between one-hundred to one fifty an hour as an escort. While the guy down on his luck is stuck working a labour job for forty dollars a day and ruining their body. I think working at a recycling plant as the glass falls off the first line onto the next and hitting you in the face and the corner of the eye behind your glasses you have more of a chance of catching a disease. Or working on the back of a garbage truck that you only have seven years until your hips or knees or shoulders or something goes. Again all for only forty bucks a day. Or a repetitive labour job that your tendons go out on you. So ya pore them working for only an hour a day and making three times as much. 

 Also if you are in a free country and getting an escort is illegal being the oldest trade in the world are you really in a free country?  

Men: People reach sexual maturity at different ages. Normal development of sexual response in young men can happen anytime between ages 12 – 18.  https://psychcentral.com/ask-the-therapist/2012/02/14/when-does-sexual-maturity-arrive/  

Women https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/sex-after-35_us_56b8fe8fe4b01d80b247658a 

Of course, buying or kidnapping a sex slave you should be hit on the head with a really big stick many many many times. 

How do men end up doing stupid things with women that they regret is easy. It's the same as why women say they never meant to sleep with that guy or regret what they have done too, or blame the guy afterward for something at the time they wanted to do. The way to understand this quickly is easy. Do not eat for a week, watch how you will become desperate to eat anything or become violent and back before modern day, kill an animal larger than you so you could eat. Sex is a basic human need, that I will get into more in a later blog and if you are not willing to fuck to continue your species like a fucking panda bear. Your body will try tricking your brain into it the longer you go without it. Of course, because this can take months it's hard for people to put these things together.  The church also does a great job telling you it's also wrong.

- The point of rewarding yourself with beer at the end of a long day is. Once your bills are paid, you have some food, and your work day is over,|You can drink a six pack and not feel hungover the next day for work. Add a few glasses of water. When you do get drunk beer only borrows happiness from the next day, unlike drugs that can leave you with two years to recover if you're lucky. Of course, if you are down on money find your poison and drink it straight. For me it's whiskey and when I was younger making minimum wage, I would have a bottle of whiskey each week and have a small glass or two each night. If you can afford it a glass or two of red wine each night. When my house is prosperous there is olives, cheese, meat, and wine in the fridge. When it's not there is whisky and rice to eat. But we will go over food at a later time and beeratology. I am not a founder of beeratology but I am an active member. 

- The problem with drugs is that people think it relates to having money and women thanks to brainwashed music and movies. When in fact, it only assures, that there will be people to do the dishes and work the minimum wage jobs if they live through it. In fact, drugs will drain all of your money take your house and anything you own and keep you from being able to afford to get with a woman. More than likely you will be in a small room with a bunch of other stupid guys getting high who all thought drugs would get them women too.  We will get into drugs more on a different rant. 

- So if you want to get laid first wear a condom and pull out and check you have not pushed the top off it. Then pay for an escort. Sure sometimes they try and take your money and give you nothing in return. But how many times have you spent all your money impressing a woman and been left with nothing but bouncing blue balls? I have known many escorts that were my friends and their clientele is mostly overweight middle age men that were stupid enough to get into a long-term relationship and waste away their twenties. But of course, it was the guy who took the youth of the women. 

- The way that I see it, if you are planning on having children the best age is between twenty-eight and thirty-five after thirty-five you can pose a risk to the child. Why is this time important? first, lets look at babysitting and your work. Your parents are going to be close to retirement and the age of 65 this makes a great reason why we should all retire at 65 and not seventy. By twenty-eight, you are established in life and if you were not stupid enough to settle down in your early twenties you are not going to go through a midlife crisis in your late thirties. For however many moments you miss with your children know that when they have children and you are retired you will get to spend time seeing it in your grandchildren.

- I made the stupidest mistake of my life when I was younger and listened to my mother. She said you should save up to go to college and not take a student loan so you are not in debt when you are done. What a fool I was, why work for less than a third of the amount or less you will be making without a degree and saving up to go to school and the longer you go without school the harder it is to do when you go back. Also unfortunately like most people making minimum wage I was scammed for 5K an amount I could never save up to pay back at 5.25  an hour and there went me going back to school and a life of working labour jobs. 

Back when we only lived to thirty or forty there was no point in school. but now that we are living to eighty. It is not much to stay in school until your mid to late twenties and I will explain how our work schedules are stupid in life in a later blog as I go into it a bit in my book. 

You will find in life every 7 years your life changes and now we are living while into our 80's.

From birth to 7 you learn the basics that you keep the rest of your life. you are now a child at 7

7 14 you understand more complexing methods and are growing into an adult. at 14 you are a young adult. Back then you would learn your trade from seven to fourteen

14 21 you will begin to shape your life into the field you want to work and the patterns you have in school during this time you will take with you most of your life in work unless you make an effort try and change them. Back then you would be married with children while working full time and at first sending money back home to your family.

21 28, you will finish growing up and start to realize as you get closer to 28 that you are changing. Also you take what you believe from your parents and leave the rest behind of the old generation's beliefs that are not quite all true, but remember to go to your grandparents to learn the things that were true and your parents dismissed. Some old beliefs need to die off and when people are older they do not want to admit what they believed might have been wrong. Back then work sun up to sun down and raise children

28  35. The best time to have children. Also, you will be settling into work and understanding how it works. Back then dead by 35. Here you will be able to reflect back on small things you learned when you were younger and now understand the lessons from it. You will now work smarter and not harder now that you do not want to lift the same thing twice that you only had to lift once. 

35 42. This is the halfway point in your life. You might think you are old but you are only half way through it and think of what has happened all the way until now. Here is where you begin to understand the world and travel kills ignorance.  You will also start thinking about retirement and do you want to keep working the rest of your life after 65?

? I am not between this part or talked to many people in this age group.

63 70. You do not feel much different then you did back in your 40's and 50's but you get tired a lot quicker. 

7 14 21 28  35 42 49 56 63 70 77 84 This follows along with the important dates of changes in your life 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HKtsdZs9LJo 

Are you looking for fault?

There is nothing wrong with looking into something new and word of mouth is a slow and best way to grow. But high brow, tends to mean you are trying to find a way to make it stop or find fault in every word and I am scarred and flawed. When people ask me about the skulls I have tattooed on my arms I give a reason or two. But what I want to say is that I wear my heart on my sleeve and the twelve skulls represent people that I thought were once my friends that all betrayed me the second they had the chance.  

I once had the opportunity to teach a group of people and I knew that if they failed it was not them but me that failed them. After all I was able to still follow the Tao, 

First, you learn

Then you do 

Then you teach. 

When things go right everyone has a handprint, but when things are going wrong someone must stand alone. 

I believe the quote I am trying to say is that success has many fathers but failure only one.

But I have a saying as well: Success by no other means! 

After you have found all the ways you can fail at something, then you have no other choice but to succeed. 

Are you looking for someone to blame or a way to chance? In the end, what are you looking for?

Do you possess the Tao?

There is a story in Taoism of a man in a Taoist temple being picked on constantly be the monks there. Until one day, he fell off of a two-story building or something along those lines, the point is he was not hurt and the monks said to him " I did not know you possessed the tao?"

After all, you cannot learn all about religion from a book and you cannot tell someone by what you have heard. Modern-day seems to be more about how much you can remember then how much you can figure out for yourself.   

The fact is, to be alive or dead you are one with the tao, to be a rock or the sun you or one with the tao. The best terminology of an afterlife I ever heard came from a thirteen-year-old boy in an interview in the basement of the united nations building. when asked about an afterlife he replied energy cannot be created or destroyed it can only change forms. 

So you `do not possess the tao as though it is a charm bracelet you wear. A matter a fact, the less you want it the more you will find yourself understanding it  

There is a man now who read the Tao te Ching for only one year and now claims he understands it while enough to teach. Meanwhile, I have read the tao for twenty-four years now and I still have no clue. But then he also has lots of pieces of paper on his walls showing how smart he is and I have none. But then, that man in life was given every chance to fail and he succeeded, where I had many chances to succeed and all I kept doing was failing. In the end, though there is no right way to walk, only the way you have chosen.  

After all, I am slow and dull, while others are sharp and quick. They get together and laugh, while I seem to find the wrong things to say. Wherever I go I never seem to fit in, I am but a storyteller by the campfire in a time of movies and television.

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Bonsai tree

There in a small town, in a small backyard, of a small house. An old man tended to his small bonsai tree. He received it when both him and the tree were small and watched it grow more and more. He watered and trimmed his tree as it only sat there as still as could be. There was no way to know how old the man was, he lived long past all those who once knew him when he was born and as the young turned old and gray they had there own things to worry about each day. But the tree was no ordinary tree it was once a branch trimmed off of the tree of life and as it grew so did our universe. With each leaf, a galaxy and when a leaf was trimmed or died so did the galaxy disappear from the sky. So as the old man's life was coming to an end, he wondered, what will happen to my tree? While everyone else wondered what will happen to me?